How to help: when you really want to help by Davina Bell and Hilary Jean Tapper

How to help: when you really want to help addresses that sometimes awkward moment when it is not clear that someone wants help. Each page presents a different event that explores the help that can be offered. In this way the book models the response needed when someone can see a need.

From wiping up baby’s spill as she eats in her high chair, to offering accommodation when it is needed, to sharing a pillow to snuggle, each softly illustrated page shows children how to help. From physical help, making something, baking, wiping and so on, come many offers of help that are an emotional response. Opening your heart, being part of a choir where your voice is shared, to listening to a story read by Grandpa, the list of things people do to help others is widened. 

Observation is the key to these offerings. A bird is found in need of help, so a box is made for the animal to revive in; a lost cat is advertised on the neighbourhood trees and is returned home, showing how others have helped the family get their pet back.

Neighbours can check out the person over the fence, checking they are alright and offering help if needed. Showing up for the match either as a supporter or participant helps a range of others, the team can now play their games; the supporters can barrack together. Children can help on clean up days, where a neighbourhood or beach or park is cleaned by a large group of people, or simply by one.   

The book gives children a range of large and small things they can do to make a difference, at home, or in the neighbourhood, at school or in the wider community. 

Supported by soft pencil and water colour illustrations, the book will encourage interest and discussion.

Themes: Helping, Humour, Family.

Fran Knight